OK, Katz and Kittenz....pull in your claws....
I was notified of this post and the reply over the weekend, and was waiting to discuss it with the other members of the team, today, before taking any action - I don't take "rogue moderator" action.
TINA, you did not fail at all, you said it, and you said it well.
It is not GBS.com's place to curtail off-line behaviors. It is our job to make sure we all play nice while in the OKP.
While the nature of Bonnie's post is understandable (wanting the guys to have their prvacy respected is valid), the content is considered a personal attack against another member.
Can we move past this, knowing that the Mod/Admin team is working on this situation.
In the wise and wonderful words of the King himself:
"You've got to move along....I believe there's Something Beautiful to see, Move along..."
So, now to change the subject entirely....
In "Belong" don'tcha just love how Alan's voice sounds when he sings "but I know where I belong" in the first verse..when he has that sort of moan to his voice? It makes me go all mushy inside! Kinda like the version of River Driver off C&P&G....mmmm yummy, growly, moan-y Alan voice~ 
Helen
I'm goin' Straight to Hell-On-Wheels!